Family

Since I have one half Scots in my blood, no Irish that I know of, and am not a drinker, I won’t be hoisting the green for St Patty’s Day. Instead I’ll pledge my pen to the celebration of Family; for isn’t that really why everyone suddenly becomes Irish around March 17th, to be part of the larger more communal “family”? A good family is a true treasure of life and I do believe that if you didn’t get the one you wanted at birth then you can always go out and start your own anew. As a child, I witnessed an example of such a self-made family system thru a birdseye view of a neighboring family of thespians. Although the original nuclear family disbanded early on, they were constantly reconstructing a revolving door cast of family characters that I found endlessly fascinating. I can’t say I have a clue to what constitutes a failsafe pairing of family values for any couple. My grandparents were all gone by the time my preschool years were over, and most other relatives lived so far away that contact was rare. I never witnessed the longterm dynamics of extended blood family, nor had the chance to explore it with my own now grown children. Perhaps that is why my circles of connection have formed through my shared experiences with various spiritual seekers. Many have remained my true extended “heart” family. It is the closest replication of the solidity and mutual respect that my parents’ marriage mirrored; one devoid of fights, drama, or substance induced misbehavior. In honor of them and the ideal they lived, I’ll raise a cheer to the day such an example ceases to be such a unique and remarkable surprise in the family of man. May we all be so blessed.

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About dreamingmoon

I, Aurora Dreaming Moon am a Dreamer, Sister, Lover, Mother, Grandmother and sometime Writer, Poet, Artist, Musician...who at the age of 11 made my first conscious choice to seek the path of Truth by throwing a yarrow stick reading for my youthfully petulant demand of : "Tell me the purpose of life now or I'm out of here !" The spirits in all their wisdom and humour responded in kind with the complete changing hexagram : Ch'ien to K'un which I interpreted to mean "...a complete understanding of the universe ". Thus appropriately chastised, though laughingly mollified and defeated in my attempt at an easy way out, I was lovingly set back on this never ending journey we call life. I am still trying to accomplish my assignment :) What you'll find in these blogs are just sharings of some of my most heartfelt experiences along the way. May they be of service to all reader pilgrims who cross this path.
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